A Fun Day At The Ranch

We were able to visit a therapeutic riding facility yesterday here in our town.  We had heard about it before, but were just waiting on the right timing for us to try to begin Isaac's riding again.

Yesterday they sponsored a fundraiser and silent auction, and invited us to come out.  It was a beautiful day, and we all had a wonderful time. 

Isaac will start riding in September!!!

Enjoy the pics.

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This last picture was Isaac's response when we asked him if he had a good time riding the horse.  That smile speaks for itself!

Blessings on your upcoming week!

Alesha

Living Small in a Big World

Some days I feel overwhelmed with s.t.u.f.f. – literal, physical, because-I-went-out-and-bought-it "stuff."

Just this morning, I did an inventory of the electrical appliances in my kitchen.

I found the following:

  • stove
  • refrigerator
  • microwave
  • water distiller
  • air popcorn popper
  • crock-pot
  • roaster oven
  • toaster
  • food processor
  • personal blender
  • hot water dispenser
  • juicer
  • dehydrator
  • bread machine

And these are only the things that are out on a shelf, table or on top of the refrigerator.  In my cabinets you will find the following:

  • blender
  • can opener
  • waffle maker
  • stick blender
  • small food processor

When you consider that my kitchen is 10'x9', has one door opening and one door to the outside, that list is really amazing, isn't it???

We do use almost everything in that first list on a weekly basis, so it really is more efficient to have the appliances out where they are easily accessible. 

I think that whoever the person was who created those "appliance garages" in newer home construction was absolutely *brilliant*!

The rest of our home is, likewise, very small (less than 800 square feet of living space); and is also, likewise, jam packed with "stuff".

Due to that, we have obviously had to come up with some "coping mechanisms" – some ways to make this small space work for us and for all of our big stuff.

I know that, these days, many people are trying to simplify.  I thought I'd share a few of my ideas with you.

Plan #1 – The Desk

Hmm…right…we don't have a desk.  If we did have a desk, we would have no room for it.  So what do I do with all of my bills, financial budget, receipts, coupons, and the like?

I use this:

Budgettray 

A lap tray.  It can move around the house with me, no matter where I am for the day.  Everything stays tidy and neat.  When Doug has receipts, he put them in the little box (the box in which the bank mailed our checks to us). 

The large box (a card sorting box from Hallmark – free with a purchase of so many cards) holds all of 2010 receipts, check stubs, January-July budget pages, and bank statements. 

To be honest, that box is very full.  I am hoping to be able to finish out the year with it, but if not, I will store it somewhere and find another box to travel with the lap tray.

I also keep my coupons here, along with bills to be pain, calculator, pen, pencil, checkbook and tithe envelopes.  Everything is right at my finger tips, no matter where I choose to settle to work on the budget.

Where does my budget lap tray roost when it is not in use?  Here:

Budgettray2 

It isn't lovely, but it is up out of our way and it doesn't block our view of the tv.  It works for us.

Plan #2 – The Work Bench

I have a business:  a jewelry-making business.  So I need a work bench, right?  Well, yes, a work bench would be absolutely "loverly", as Eliza Doolittle would say!!! 

However, if I had one, there is no place to put it in the house.  I live in Florida, so working outside on the porch is not an option for about 9 months of the year.

Here is my solution:

Jewelrycart 

A rolling microwave cart

Everything I use to make jewelry, my shipping materials, my books, my photo props, my finished pieces and all my tools and supplies fit on this.

When I work, I can easily move the 2 containers from the top, and use the surface there to work.  I also have another lap tray on which I work most of the time.

This cart can also move around the house with me.  It usually stays parked in my bedroom, in front of the dresser.  I do have plans to clear a corner for it soon, so that we don't have to roll it out of the way to get into the dresser drawers.

So, those are two solutions that we use to help us live small in our big world.

I would love to hear if you have any "small living" solutions!  I can certainly use more ideas on fitting us into the house.  Isaac's equipment will only keep getting bigger, as it has to grow with him; so we will need to make even more space as the years go by.

Please leave me a link here in the comments if you blog on this subject!  I look forward to reading your ideas!

Blessings,

Alesha

Hope in the Sacrifice of Praise

Psalm 54:6 – I will freely sacrifice unto thee: I will praise thy name, O LORD; for it is good.

Sometimes praising God is a sacrifice. 

  • Not because He isn't worthy – because He is. 
  • Not because we don't know to praise Him – we certainly do know that we should. 
  • Not because we don't want to praise Him – because rightfully, in our minds, we do want to give Him glory.  

In the last decade, "praise and worship" has become a shallow
activity of singing songs that appeal to the emotions.

"Praise" is so much more than that. 

It is vocalizing God's goodness and responding to that goodness by living our lives according to His principles and precepts.

Praising the Lord is a sacrifice because it is often emotionally painful. 

As we sing the glories of all that God is, we are confessing all that we are not.

  • When we praise His will, we are surrendering our own will. 
  • When we praise His worth, we are acknowledging our own unworthiness.
  • When we praise His ways, we are saying that we will abandon our ways. 
  • When we praise His wisdom, we are agreeing to lay our wisdom aside. 
  • When we praise His works, we are admitting that even the difficult things are from Him, and therefore are meant for our good.

Hebrews 13:12-15 - 

Wherefore Jesus also, that he might sanctify the people with his own blood, suffered without the gate. 

Let us go forth therefore unto him without the camp, bearing his reproach.

For here have we no continuing city, but we seek one to come.

By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God
continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name.

But to do good and to communicate forget not: for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.

What things are mentioned here as "such sacrifices"?

  • Going outside the camp – leaving the familiar
  • Bearing Christ's reproach – living our lives differently than the non-believer, and suffering for it
  • Having no continuing city – not getting too comfortable here on earth
  • Seeking Heaven – having our eyes always on eternity
  • Offering sacrifices of praise to God – giving voice to the goodness of God
  • the fruit of our lips giving thanks – the result of our verbal praise bringing honor to Christ's name
  • Doing good
  • Communicating all of this to the world

This then, is true "praise".

So there will be days when singing out our praise and living out the truth of that praise will be a sacrifice for us.

Can I just encourage you to PRAISE Him even when it hurts.  As we relinquish our will to His, even though it may cause us pain, He fills us with His incredible peace.

Having peace is so much greater than having control.

May your tears be more than an emotional response to the music of a song.  May they be the outward response to an inward surrender to His will for your life.

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If my lips sing it, my life should live it.

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I Forgot I Was Grieving

I am, on balance, a fairly happy person.

I love the Lord, and I
love my life.  I feel content in most circumstances.  Even if I get
temporarily thrown off my usual stride, I can usually find my
equilibrium, so to speak, pretty quickly.

You see, I like peace.  I like to feel peaceful.  I dislike anxiety, fretfulness and worry.

So, I'm learning to focus on my Lord, and to allow His peace to fill me.

That is why I have been extremely frustrated with my self the past month or so. 

I
have not felt very peaceful.  I have been quite fretful.  I have been
grouchy, cantankerous, and (I say it to my shame) a tad unforgiving
lately.

And I don't like being that way!

I have been unhappy with myself that I am feeling unhappy with others and with life in general.

Then, this morning, I was working with Isaac, listening to the music playing in his room, and I just burst into tears.

The song was about Heaven.  I hear songs about Heaven several times every day.  I don't usually break down over them.

This
song, however, was about our friends and loved ones who are already in
Heaven, how we miss them, and how happy we will be to see them again.

Then I remembered.

Gail.

I am still grieving over losing Gail.

Don't
get me wrong.  I think about Gail every day – usually more than once a
day.  I mostly think of things that I want to tell her — then I
remember that I can't.  So, I move my thoughts on to something else, and
get on with my day.

But grief eventually needs its outlet, doesn't it?

I
can't keep just pushing it aside for other things, because that's where
the discontent comes from.  That's why I'm so easily frustrated and
angered and why I hold on to those feelings longer than usual.

I've pushed aside the grieving to get on with my life, but the sadness just isn't disappearing. 

So,
today, when I burst into tears, I should have just let those tears
continue until I was finished with the crying.  As usual, I stopped them
so that I could go about my business.

I think the next time they
start, I'm just going to indulge them for a little while.  Maybe some of
the anger, fretfulness, anxiety, unforgiveness with flow away with the
tears.

Yeah, so I remembered I'm still grieving.  That's ok.  I
think I will just give myself a little break today, and grieve for my
sweet friend who I am missing so very much.

Our God is such a
great God to create us to feel so many emotions, and then build into our
very bodies the outlet for those emotions:  tears, laughter, and the
huge array in between the two.

I almost wonder that if I allow myself to cry, I will find that my laughter returns as well.

I just think it might.

I Forgot I Was Grieving

I am, on balance, a fairly happy person.

I love the Lord, and I love my life.  I feel content in most circumstances.  Even if I get temporarily thrown off my usual stride, I can usually find my equilibrium, so to speak, pretty quickly.

You see, I like peace.  I like to feel peaceful.  I dislike anxiety, fretfulness and worry.

So, I'm learning to focus on my Lord, and to allow His peace to fill me.

That is why I have been extremely frustrated with my self the past month or so. 

I have not felt very peaceful.  I have been quite fretful.  I have been grouchy, cantankerous, and (I say it to my shame) a tad unforgiving lately.

And I don't like being that way!

I have been unhappy with myself that I am feeling unhappy with others and with life in general.

Then, this morning, I was working with Isaac, listening to the music playing in his room, and I just burst into tears.

The song was about Heaven.  I hear songs about Heaven several times every day.  I don't usually break down over them.

This song, however, was about our friends and loved ones who are already in Heaven, how we miss them, and how happy we will be to see them again.

Then I remembered.

Gail.

I am still grieving over losing Gail.

Don't get me wrong.  I think about Gail every day – usually more than once a day.  I mostly think of things that I want to tell her — then I remember that I can't.  So, I move my thoughts on to something else, and get on with my day.

But grief eventually needs its outlet, doesn't it?

I can't keep just pushing it aside for other things, because that's where the discontent comes from.  That's why I'm so easily frustrated and angered and why I hold on to those feelings longer than usual.

I've pushed aside the grieving to get on with my life, but the sadness just isn't disappearing. 

So, today, when I burst into tears, I should have just let those tears continue until I was finished with the crying.  As usual, I stopped them so that I could go about my business.

I think the next time they start, I'm just going to indulge them for a little while.  Maybe some of the anger, fretfulness, anxiety, unforgiveness with flow away with the tears.

Yeah, so I remembered I'm still grieving.  That's ok.  I think I will just give myself a little break today, and grieve for my sweet friend who I am missing so very much.

Our God is such a great God to create us to feel so many emotions, and then build into our very bodies the outlet for those emotions:  tears, laughter, and the huge array in between the two.

I almost wonder that if I allow myself to cry, I will find that my laughter returns as well.

I just think it might.