Let the Home Schooling Begin!

It's been a busy week for us here in HOT, sunny Florida.  Summer has arrived right on schedule and we are already seeing temperatures in the mid-90s – which is as it should be!  It is Florida, after all.

This is the first week, since I was down with my back, that I have tried to integrate caring for Isaac and actually doing a little house work too.  That's why I haven't been here blogging – just too busy!  It seems that everything takes me twice as long as it did before.

On Tuesday, while Doug and Isaac went to therapy, my Dad took Mama and I to the dentist.  Now doesn't that sound like a fun outing???  I was glad to be with good company, but would have rather gone shopping or something! :) 

The rest of the week I spent trying to keep Isaac in dry ribbons!  He is a chewing maniac these days.  It's so funny after almost 3 years of putting nothing in his mouth, he has constantly got something he's trying to chew on.  

We have been working on his relearning some things this past week.  We're starting with the word "gentle".  He is really giving his therapists a difficult time, and has started swatting at them when they stretch or move something in a way that he doesn't like.  He doesn't have much control, and so the swatting can really hurt.  Even when he's playing with me, now, he whacks and doesn't realize how hard it is.  So, we are working on "gentle".

I am also working with him on retrieving his own toys when he loses track of them.  His default behavior is to whine – repeatedly – quietly – yet with every breath – until I come and "fix" whatever is wrong.  Whether he wants a different video, or to listen to the radio, or if he needs dry pants, he just does his "nagging" as I call it. 

So, I am trying to prompt him, when I know he's just misplaced his toys, to find them for himself.  Usually they are up under his arm, and he has a hard time finding them, because he can't see them.  I help him to reach over with his opposite hand to find them.  I am also helping him to sit up and reach down the bed for them, when he's just tossed them beyond his reach.  He is always so delighted when he gets them.

We are also teaching him the word "drink".  I am using his lemon swabs to give him tastes of different juices.  He gets a little of the liquid without my pouring it into his mouth, which could cause him to aspirate.  Some days he wants several "drinks" and other days he's not interested; but since it's getting so hot, I thought it was a good things to work on.  He drools so much when he chews on toys, and I don't want him to get dehydrated in this weather.

So, I guess I sorta-kind started Isaac's home school lessons again, didn't I?  I really didn't realize it, until I started telling you all about them.  These are the sorts of things we worked on before, although in greater number each week.  We will add things each week, as he understands more and more.

Today, he enjoyed baked sweet potato with me for lunch.  He chewed and swallowed every bite.  Doug said none of it ended up on his bib!  (He used to taste things, but then let them slide out of his mouth instead of swallowing.)  Sweet potato used to be his favorite baby food, too!  We're on the right track, I'd say! 🙂

I am looking forward to my fresh, new week.  I am especially praying for my sweet friend, Mrs. C, who is recovering from surgery.  I'm also praying for a friend's son, who seems to be straying from the Lord.  You know it is never too late to ask for God to draw the prodigal back home.  He is a loving, gracious and forgiving God – as I can personally testify!

May you see God's Hand in your life this week, as He moves to accomplish His will in you!

Alesha

Around the Neighborhood

My lilies have finally bloomed…just beautifully!

Magnificent!

The air is full of the sweet smell of orange blossoms.

Our neighbor's dog.  Isn't he gorgeous?  We don't know his name, so we, quite imaginatively, call him "Brownie".

My version of a bird bath – vintage terra cotta pot and saucer from my grandmother's house.  It works really well, too.

This is right outside Ike's window.  The birdbath is below it.

 

The most beautiful thing in our yard – our now functioning air conditioning unit.

Just look at that Florida sky!!!

Mama turtle was taking a tour of our yard this morning.

Baby turtle trying to catch a ride.

 

Papa is installing a wide gate between our two yards, so that Isaac's wheelchair (and Papa's new riding lawn mower) can go easily from yard to yard.

Newton, sporting his new haircut and bandanna.

And, inside the house, our new mattress set arrived!  It is wonderful, and we love it!!!  We bought this one from here.

How are things in your neighborhood?

🙂

Alesha

 

 

A Short Post From Sunny Florida

  • Isaac's surgery site is healing nicely, and he has been released to his regular activities!  That means, Lord willing, church for the 3 of us on Sunday.  Praise the Lord!
  • We bought a new mattress set, and it will be delivered on next Friday.  THANK YOU to all of you who gave me your opinions and experiences.  I did a lot of research, due to your ideas, and we feel we found the best mattress for us. 🙂 Pictures to follow, after it's delivered. 
  • I had a brutal visit with my chiropractor on Monday, but I am reaping the rewards of that now.  My legs are finally the same length again, and – wonder of wonders! – that does miraculous things for my muscles!  Go figure! 🙂
  • We are spending lots of time outside in this beautiful weather.  Soon, it will be much too hot to be outside, except first thing in the morning, so we are trying to soak up all the rays we can now.  Isaac and I are both sporting pink noses and cheeks, and we look so much better for it! 😉
  • I pray that you have a wonderful weekend, and that you are able to be in your church on Sunday.  I am looking forward - with GREAT anticipation – to being in mine. :~D

Blessings,

Alesha

Just A Note

…to say that we are doing well.  We had a quiet Easter at home, and enjoyed our church's services via the world wide web!  Praise the Lord for technology!

We had a scare with Isaac last week…the doctor thought his shunt was infected, sent us for a CAT scan and told us to be prepared for more surgery.  Thank God that he was wrong and the shunt was not infected.  It was just a skin infection, and he's been on a strong antibiotic for it.  The surgery site is looking much better now.

We're still trying to get his bowels in working order, following surgery, and this additional medication is wreaking havoc with them.  We're not out of ideas, yet, though, so we'll keep persevering with that.

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Isaac playing catch with Grammy on Friday.  It was a gorgeous day!

My back is still not well, and I'll be seeing my chiropractor and my doctor this week, Lord willing, for their continued advice.  I really appreciate your prayers about that.

We have decided to shop for a new bed, rather than a used vehicle.  We're thinking the investment will be more helpful to us in the long run, even though the initial outlay is staggering for a new bed!  If you have any suggestions – and by that, I mean, a bed that has worked for you – please pass them along.

The Lord continues to be so faithful, and is showing us mercy on every side.  We feel overwhelmed by His goodness, and unworthy of it too.  I know He is doing something in us, and through us, during this time; and I am just trying to trust His timing (while letting go of mine – or at least, trying to hold my plans very loosely.) ;o)

I pray that you have a good week, and that you continue to rejoice in the truth of the Resurrection!

Alesha

Back on the Wagon

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…and our frig is full of veggies, too!

We have not been maintaining our eating plan very well since the holidays.  So, we are allowing ourselves to begin again. 

You have to do that sometimes, you know.  It might not be a new year, or a new month, or a new week, or even a new morning.

You can start over any time you want.

It's is always a good time to do what is right.

🙂

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Isaac is doing well.  We had a couple of sleepless nights (but if you've read my blog for any length of time, you know that is almost "normal" for Isaac!); and we've had a couple of grumpy days.  All that is to be expected, I think, after surgery.

He and Doug went out for a walk today, and he really enjoyed that so much.  I think he's just tired of being inside and tired of being at home.  It is SO beautiful outside, too, that there was no reason for him to stay in.  I'm glad Doug took the time to take him outside.

His surgery sites are healing well.  He has a post-op doctor's appointment next Friday.  After that, they will tell us when we can return to our normal schedule of things.

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For those of you who subscribe to my RSS feed via a blog reader might notice an increase in posts over the next few days.  I am attempting to move my archives off my old blog onto this new one.  My apologies for the multiple posts.  I hope they are not too aggravating. 🙂

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My back is still doing poorly.  I'm getting a little discouraged and …well, to be totally honest…a little grumpy about it!  I was hoping to feel better by now.  I cannot sit for any length of time; and if I do sit for too long, I cannot stand up straight or walk when I do get up.  I have to lean on something and sort of painfully u-n-f-o-l-d, while trying not to gasp with agony. 

If you were a fly on the wall, you would hear something like this: 

Doug:  "Are you ok?" 

Alesha:  Through gritted teeth, "y.e.s." 

Doug:  "Do you need some help?" 

Alesha:  Gasping with pain, "NO." 

Doug:  "I can come help you." 

Alesha:  "No.  I.got.it!"

Doug:  "All right, well take your time."

Alesha:  Almost to the bed, "o.k."  Then upon reaching the bed, "ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh…"

Doug:  "Are you ok?"

Repeat ad nauseum.  It's quite a comical thing, if you're not involved!!! ;o)

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I hope you are going to be able to go to church tomorrow.  I know I am missing it so much, being stuck here.  I am grateful to have the live video feed, but I do miss seeing everyone.  There's just something about face-to-face fellowship that can't be mimicked by virtual interaction here on the web.

If you are stuck at home time, feel free to join our service here.  Just hover over "Media" and click "Live Service".

Blessings,

Alesha

Blogging Bullets

  • Our new a/c unit is up and running!!!  That should make our electric bill much happier!
  • My back has gone out again.
  • I made some new jewelry and sold some jewelry last week.
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  • I've made some jewelry repairs this week, too.
  • Isaac has been trying to vomit since yesterday evening.  (His previous
    surgery does not allow him to actually bring anything up.)  We think
    it's due to a decrease in meds (on purpose…we were weaning him off a
    gastro med), and we hope as soon as the levels go back up, he will stop
    trying to turn himself inside out with the dry heaves.
  • I got a new hair cut.  Here's some of those corny "taking pictures of myself in the car" shots:
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  • My mom and I were able to have brunch together yesterday.
  • The weather here is absolutely gorgeous right now.
  • This made me happy:

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  • Isaac made a new friend at church on Sunday.  She came in her wheelchair, and sat with him in junior church.  She was 8 years old and such a cutie!  He was really quite pleased about it too.
  • That is all I can think of for today.  It's hard to write brilliantly from a reclined position!

Spring is on its way,

Alesha

A Short Update About A Sick Boy

Trying to keep my promise to allow myself to write shorter posts that aren't quite as polished as I'd like.  I know that so many people like to keep up with Isaac, and when you don't see a post for days on end, you start to wonder. 🙂

So, here's our Isaac Update:

Ugh!  Isaac is sick again.  High temps this afternoon and a stuffy/runny nose, and his tummy has been upset too.  I had a diaper this afternoon that had me crying "Code Brown!  Code Brown!" in my head, thinking of Tia's posts on the subject!  I needed four hands for the clean up, and then one more pair to pin down Isaac's!  It was quite a challenge! 🙂

He is generally miserable, but is soothed by his favorite videos and music, praise the Lord.  I just hate the whole shivering with fever, then sweating it out…it just makes him so unhappy. :o(

I am dealing with lots of fibromyalgia pain this week.  I missed my vitamins for a few days, as well as our carrot juice, and the weather has been cold.  I think these things have combined to wreaked havoc on my system.  But I've downed my double handful of supplements for today, and Doug has been juicing our carrots this week.  So I am looking forward to feeling better soon.

My dad and brother have been working on our central air/heat system this week, so we are looking forward to having it up and running soon.  We are so blessed by the knowledge my dad has gained down through the years, and I am so glad that he has passed it on to my brother!  So nice to see them work together, too. 🙂

That's it for today.

Blessings to you,

Alesha